Carrying the Light: A Menopause Wellness Series 

Part One: Understanding the Journey 

Menopause is not the end of your vitality—it’s the beginning of a new chapter. Like any meaningful life transition, it brings change, questions, and the potential for personal growth. 

This is the first post in a three-part series designed to support you through the menopause transition, with practical guidance, education, and emotional validation. Whether you're experiencing early perimenopause or have already reached menopause, knowing what’s happening in your body can make all the difference.

What Is Perimenopause? 

Perimenopause typically begins in your 40s, but it can start earlier or later. This phase often spans several years, culminating in menopause—the point when you've gone 12 consecutive months without a menstrual period. 

During this time, hormonal shifts—particularly in estrogen and progesterone—can cause physical and emotional symptoms that may feel unfamiliar or unsettling. 

Common Menopause Symptoms 

  • Sleep disruptions: Difficulty falling or staying asleep, even when you feel exhausted
  • Hot flashes & night sweats: Sudden waves of heat that interrupt daily life and sleep
  • Irregular periods: Shorter, longer, or missed menstrual cycles
  • Vaginal dryness: Discomfort during intimacy that can impact relationships
  • Weight gain: Especially around the midsection, even with healthy habits
  • Brain fog: Trouble concentrating, forgetfulness, or word retrieval issues

These symptoms are common, but that doesn’t make them easy. Many women feel unprepared for the intensity of these changes, especially when they come without clear explanations or support. 

You’re Not Broken—You’re Transforming

These shifts are not signs that something is wrong with you. They are part of a normal biological transition. Understanding what’s happening in your body can help reduce anxiety and empower you to make supportive choices. 

Start by tuning into your body. Track your symptoms. Seek out healthcare providers who listen and take your experience seriously. Talk to other women. Share stories. There is power in connection. 

Prioritize Your Well-Being 

This is a time to be gentle with yourself.

  • Choose nourishing foods and hydrate regularly.
  • Move your body in ways that feel restorative, not punishing.
  • Prioritize sleep, even if it means adjusting your routine.
  • Make space for creativity, pleasure, and joy—small things matter.

These daily habits become your anchor. 

Reframing the Menopause Transition

Menopause isn’t just a physical shift—it’s a personal evolution. This is your time to ask:

  • Who am I becoming?
  • What am I ready to release?
  • What strengths am I gaining?

You reclaim your power when you approach this phase with curiosity and self-compassion. You are not dimming—you are transforming. You are not stepping back—you are stepping into your next version. 

This is not an ending—it’s a beginning. And you don’t have to walk through it alone. 

Visit Health Link BC for a comprehensive resource on symptoms, self-care strategies, and treatment options specific to British Columbia residents or My Health Alberta for Alberta residents.

To read the next two parts of this series: Emotions, Identity & Mental Health, and Relationships, Renewal & Reclaiming Your Light, please visit our Wellness Library